⚠️⚠️ vocab story, based on the Hindu vocab, 24 and 25 Dec.🛃🛃🛃


" headache of failure " 🤦🤦 

Today we will discuss only this type of headache. I also named it wicked headache because it is bad for us, it creates 👉 stricture ( परिसीमन - constraint) on our whole thinking system. 😱🤕

It also has no time limit. You 👉 ostensibly ( जाहिर तौर पर - apparently) have this headache after the failure. But you could also have this before your failure. 🙄 

We actually do have this headache all the time, for our whole life, and if I want to 👉 articulate ( साफ साफ बोलना - express ) about this sir drd, I must say that failure ka sir drd hme paida hone se phle bhi rhta hi hai . Kaise? Okay I am to tell you a story. 

There was a sweet married couple 💑. They were living very happily but ek bar unme ladai ho gai. ✊🤛 Ab hmare ghr me ladai ho aur neighbors ko 👉 alacrity ( उत्सुकता - eagerness ) na ho hmari ladai me to lanat h padosi hone pr. 🤷 

So un couple ki ladai sunkr one of their neighbors 👉 protruded (बाहर निकलना - stick out ) from his house. Vo bechara new aaya tha unke pados me. Usko kuch pta nhi tha to he just asked them " why are you 👉 impugning ( बहस करना - dispute) to each other? Both of you are married, you should not 👉 transgress ( दुर्व्यवहार करना - misbehave ) because of any problem. Just stop this argument and tell me what is the matter ?" 

After listening to this wife ne bola - " are bhaai sahab koi bdi bat nhi h, mai na bahut beemar rhti hu so because of that I want my child to be a doctor 👩‍🍳"😊😊 

Wife ki bat sunkr husband us pr 👉 infuriate ( क्रुध्द होना - enrage ) hone lga aur bola - " you can never understand my problems. Are poore 4 case chal rhe h mere upr , I have 👉 disbursed ( चुकाना - pay) my all money just to get rid of one charge. That's why I want my child  to be a lawyer. 👩‍💼👩‍⚖️ But you are 👉 stifling ( दबाव बनाना - constrain ) me taaki mai tumhari bat man jau. 😣😣 But aisa nhi hoga.😠😠

Dono me se koi haar manne ko ready nhi tha. Ladai ko suljhanaa bahut 👉 cumbersome ( दुष्कर - unwieldy) hota ja rha tha.
Ab Padosi hairan preshan ho gyA. Use dono k hi point shi lge, bt ab ladai to khtm krni hi thi so vo bola - " theek hai, none of you is ready to 👉 defer ( झुक जाना - yield) so I have a solution. Aap apne bachhe ko yha bulaao aur usi se pooch lo ki use doctor bnna hai ya lawyer " 

Ye bat sunkr dono husband-wife hasne lge. 

Padosi ne poochha - are bhaai hs kyu rhe ho " 

Couple said - " are puchenge kisse, bachaa to abhi aaya hi nhi h "😃

Padosi - " mtlb " 🙄

Husband - " are aapne itna 👉 infantile ( बचकाना - childish ) solution diy h ki hme hsi aa gai ,  abhi to meri biwi pregnant hui h to hm bachhe se kaise puche ki vo kya bnega "

Padosi ka dimag grm ho gya - " abe bevkoofo, jb bachha aaya hi nhi h to usko kya bnana h iske peeche ladai kyu kr rhe ho, " 

Gusse me padosi 👉 scurrilous ( अपमानजनक - abusive ) words bolta hua vha se chla gya. 🙄🤕🤕. 

Yha hm na padosi k sir drd ki bat kr rhe h aur na hi couples k sir drd ki. 

Hm bat kr rhe h us bachhe k sir drd ki jiska sir shayd abhi bnke taiyar bhi nhi hua hoga 😵😵🤒🤒. Bechare k aadhe adhoore brain ne bhi doctor aur lawyer bnne k tareeke 👉 decipher ( गूढ लेख पढ़ना - decode) krna shuru kr diya hoga. 

Mtlb hd h yr. Hme paida hone se phle hi expectations aur failure ka headache de diya jata h. Fir hm bhi is headache k habitual ho jate h, it is just like having 👉 animosity ( बैर -antipathy ) towards our selves.👹👹

Is failure k headache me hm learning ko dekhna to bhool hi jate hain. We can't 👉 demarcate (  हदबंदी करना -  separate) that headache from our preparation. And when we fail the first time. This headache becomes a brain tumor 🤕🤒 .

Fir hmara schedule bhi 👉 shambolic ( अव्यवस्थात्मक -chaotic ) hone lgta hai. Hmara self-confidence bhi brbad ho jata h. Our working speed also 👉 muffles ( धीमा करना - deaden). And  24 hr bs ek hi sir drd hota rhta h ," mujse na ho payega , mujhse na ho payega reee" 😢😢😢
 

We make an 👉 abject ( बिना गर्व या गरिमा के - obsequious) image for our capacity. 

That's how this wicked headache of failure destroys our learning. 

So don't expect too much. Don't have fear of failure. Remove that headache and go ahead. You are capable more than you think. ❤️😊.

Credit - Astha